10 Easy Steps to Having It All
Sunday, September 12th, 2010Wouldn’t you like to have it all?
By having it all, I mean having exactly what you desire for your life. Maybe you want better relationships with your family, or more money to buy the conveniences in life. Maybe you’d like a new car, better health, a better job or to find your true love. Perhaps you need freedom from the following: debt, a sour friendship, too much paperwork, a career you hate or a house that’s too small with a mortgage that’s too big.
Whatever you want, you can have. Having it all is possible, but no one else is going to give it to you. It all begins with you. It may feel like hard work, but project yourself into the future 1 year, 5 years or 10 years and imagine what it would feel like to have exactly what you want. There are 10 easy steps that you can follow to finding your dreams and making them come true. Having it all is no longer new-age psychobabble. Science is beginning to prove that this is possible. Forget what you learned in school. Start studying the discoveries science has made since then.

Create Awareness
1. Begin With Awareness
Awareness is key to finding what you want, both externally and internally. This entire process begins internally, so you must begin with you. Develop awareness of the thoughts and feelings you have on a daily basis. Are they mostly good, or mostly bad? Are you focusing on what you don’t have in your life? Learn about the direction your thoughts are taking by paying attention to them. Listen to the words you speak. Listen to the stories you tell. Make a list or keep a journal if you like. If that doesn’t interest you, just learn to pay attention to yourself.

Positive thoughts
2. Practice Positive Thoughts
Once you become aware of the negativity you have in your life, whether you believe it’s coming from the inside or the outside, you have an opportunity to change it. You can choose more positive thoughts. Even if something that feels like the end of your world is happening ‘to’ you, it’s possible to swing your focus to something happier. Begin with sentences that start with ‘Well at least I have ______”. Choose something in your life that makes you feel happy or that is working out the way you want.

Have gratitude
3. Be Grateful
In addition to practicing positive thoughts, find things for which to be grateful. They can be small things or big things. Be grateful for the singing birds, the sunrise, a gift from a friend or your pets. If you have a happy marriage, be grateful. If you have a nice dinner with your children, be grateful. If you can get a smile out of someone who’s usually surly, be grateful. Gratitude retrains the mind to look for only the good things. When you begin looking for the good things, you’ll notice more of them.

Visualize
4. Visualizations
Begin to visualize life the way you would like it to be. At first, this may be difficult, because you’ll probably feel like you are lying to yourself. This is ok. Practice makes it easier. This is one of the main keys to bringing about success in your life. See yourself in your dream house, at your dream job, with the love of your life or in perfect health. Make time every day to practice visualizing these thing. If you have trouble keeping pictures in your mind, try writing out sentences explaining how you would like your life to be.

Vision Board
5. Create a Vision Board
One way to help you with visualizations is to create a vision board. A vision board is a collage of pictures that describe the things you want to have, do and be in your life. These can be pictures of happy people, love, wealth, the exact care you’d like to be driving, power statements, beauty…really anything that lifts you up. Spend time with your vision board each day and learn to visualize each of these things in to your life.

Inspiration and Ideas
6. Receive Inspiration
As you learn to quiet your mind and review your life as you’d like it to be, parts of your brain will begin transforming. This is scientific. This actually happens. The pathways in your brain move and change and you’ll start to notice things that you hadn’t seen before. In this process, you’ll notice that ideas and inspiration will come to you. Perhaps you’ll get an idea for making more money, or you’ll stumble across the perfect business opportunity. Maybe someone will offer you a gift or trade that involves something you’ve been wanting. You may meet someone at the checkout when you’re grocery shopping with whom you have many things in common. Appreciate the magic of these inspirational moments.

Take Action
7. Take Action
When you receive ideas and inspiration that seem like they come out of the blue, you must take action. Your brain is responding to the work you’ve been doing and you are being provided with opportunities for having it all. How you will accomplish large goals is not as important as taking that first step. Commit yourself to small actions every day that will lead you toward your goal. As time goes and you continue with awareness, positive thoughts and visualizations, the answers for how to reach your end result will come.

Write Goals
8. Write Down Your Goals
Once you understand that this process actually works, decide to put a little more effort into your endeavors. Write out a detailed list of your goals. It doesn’t matter how big or small they are, if they equate to your definition of having it all, write them down. Get serious about what you want and the belief that you can have each and every one of them. Now, dissect each goal and determine one or more steps that you already know you can take to reach them. Don’t forget to allow inspiration and ideas to help guide you.

Give First
9. Give to Receive
By now, you should already have evidence in your life that these things work like magic. It may take a bit of this magic before you reach the point where giving is comfortable for you. Giving is the single most effective path to receiving. When you give, whether it’s love, time, money or something else grand, you will be blessed with many gifts in return. Not only may you receive something tangible, but you’ll understand the positive feelings that are created inside you when you give. Those positive feelings are magnificent! You may even find that you enjoy the feelings of giving much more than you could ever enjoy any material things that you get back. Giving is very fulfilling. Start now by giving a little of what you are blessed with. It’s your choice.

Continue Your Learning
10. Continue Your Quest for Knowledge
The definition of having it all will change for you over the course of your life. Perhaps now you only wish you could become free from a huge load of debt. Once you are relieved from that, you may begin wishing for a luxury automobile. Once that manifests into your life, you could start dreaming of starting a multi-million dollar business. As these details change in your life, so will your way of thinking need to expand. Always continue your quest for knowledge. Whether it’s learning more effective ways to meet your goals, practicing meditation, networking with successful people in your desired field or learning another language, become excited about knowing more. Always include learning in your day. Knowledge is crucial in leading you to having it all.
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